I have soooo many questions, I guess I really do overthink things but wanted to see what people thought about this - my husband and I both have blackberries and we are on each other's contact list, this is how we communicate most of the time (even when things were good). There is a "status" bar at the top of my contact so whenever he is on his bbm he can see my profile pic (which is a pic of my daughter) and then also what I have for my status. Since this all started, I have been putting "inspirational" status' on it. For example, right now it says "Learn from yesterday, live for today, and hope for tomorrow".
Would this be considered "pressure"? should I remove it?