Well, I was supposed to have an appointment with my L to go over the paperwork this morning. We had a scheduling mix up, and now we're rescheduled for this afternoon. I did send my L a list of 19 changes / questions on the document. I loathe dealing with this stuff, but I imagine it's a sick person who really enjoys dealing with this.
Every once in awhile, I get little nuggets of data about my W offered up by S. Apparently, she has backed out on the house she had made an offer on. That may be why she hasn't asked for the tax information again lately. Supposedly she had broken it off with OM, but she's also still hanging around with him. So who knows what the truth is? It really doesn't matter at this point, because she has not said anything at all about him. This is all just data right now.
We did have a major communication issue the last weekend she had my S. We have an informal agreement that my S would be home by 6 on Sunday evening when she has him. It got to 6:45 and I hadn't heard anything. I ended up initiating the text. She indicated they were going to have dinner and they were just leaving. She asked if 8:30 would be OK. I asked her to try to make it earlier if possible. Bottom line is the informal agreement isn't working for me and we need to formalize it for my sake.
I haven't let off the gas in the GAL'ing arena. I've been on several group rides, ran a 5K, met up with folks for dinner a couple of times, out tearing it up with my S :), keeping the Chipotle at school tradition up with my S, being a part of the church groups, and I'll go ahead and throw in some high speed go kart racing. I'm also planning on scraping up the funds to go back on the Belize mission trip again next February.
I saw my W once last week and had a brief interaction and I haven't seen her since. I did text with her last week and arrange to swap weekends with her so I can have my S this weekend for a father / kids campout at church (we actually have some land and woods at my church). She easily agreed but then followed up on why I didn't voluntarily give her any 'maintenance' this month. I laid out the financials - she had owed me some money. She seemed moderately satisfied with my explanation. Money was something I'd always handled anyway.
Supposedly she had broken it off with OM, but she's also still hanging around with him. So who knows what the truth is? 
It really doesn't matter at this point, because she has not said anything at all about him. This is all just data right now.
I ended up initiating the text. She indicated they were going to have dinner and they were just leaving. She asked if 8:30 would be OK. I asked her to try to make it earlier if possible. Bottom line is the informal agreement isn't working for me and we need to formalize it for my sake. 
