mwd, in her book "change your life & everyone in it"- makes an interesting observation about relationships. something like if one person takes over one aspect of the relationship - it allows the other person to just not do it. if one person is always persuing, the other guy just doesn't have to bother- stuff like that. it's interesting and a change of perspective. if the w runs the house- the h just doesn't even have to think about it all. - my h hasn't got a clue how it gets clean or why we have sheets for the beds - not part of his reality- im sure he thinks fairies make it all happen.
maybe looking thru zher other books may give a few insights as well- i find some of it helpful- but always have to stop and remind myself that i'm dealing with what i believe is mlc - and that's got it's own rules. HOWEVER - ALL HER insights about relatinships in general, in life, are helpful too. jsut a thought.
