So I read a lot about goals. Here is a list of what I think my short term goals should be.... At least some of them:
1. Compliment her (just can't be overbearing) 2. Be affectionate when possible! Not relationship wise, more friendship. 3. Never talk about future. 4. Stop talking to friends about R 5. Dress nice. Regardless of what I'm doing. 6. Stop smoking 7. Go to the gym more. 8. LOVE MY KIDS AND MY LIFE! God has been good!!!!!! 9. Stay close to DB website, but do not live by it! 10. Finally understand that there is not a damn thing I can say or do to change her. She will only realize that she is screwing up when I show MYSELF that I am worth more than this! Make the change!!!!!! IF SHE CHOOSES NOT TO BE A PART OF MY WONDERFUL LIFE, IT'S HER LOSE!