((((Vero)))) Stay calm. You have worked so hard in the past weeks to get yourself into a good place. That is yours. You own that.

Take it very slowly, work from love as you said you want to, while protecting yourself. It seems like a good idea to bring it up in MC. And as for OW...i know she shouldn't matter - in fact she does NOT matter, but we are told and have learned that our spouses have to be almost weaned off of them. they will grieve the loss because they felt they had an emotional connection with OP. bear that in mind. So good for you for re-enforcing your boundary. You are so brave. I admire you.

Please keep us informed.

I am waiting for you on the blanket ((((( ))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home