Thank JKS. I appreciate your optimism. I'm at the point where if he goes the OW route then at least this sitch has helped us to be better parents to our children.
It's funny but I don't feel defeated. I feel relieved thinking like this.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017