Hi fmh -

I understand your fears. It would be lovely, but unrealistic for your H to jump for joy and cherish your letter in this moment.

Let it sink in. Men and women are different. Plus your behavior has put him through the ringer as well, and he might not feel your actions and words now are ringing true for him. He might even tell you it's over. That doesn't really mean it's over though.

Now you have to be consistent. And patient. You have to be really considerate of him. In his eyes, it's not about you now, and you're going to need to accept that to make progress.

The good news is...you can do this. We're here to support you and help you.


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