Norfolk, Nero and Kimmerz gave good advice. To echo, are you going to give up without a fight? Can you live with that regardless of what the outcome is?
Re-read Kimmerz post and know it is not about you. There may be things for you to work on (control freak?) but that doesn't mean it's about you. That frees you to work on you
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."