Yeah..... I am the worse thing that has ever happened to her besides the kids. She never felt like we had an intament relationship with me our whole marriage. That she thought I was stalking her because people thought they saw me. that she only stayed because she felt she had to take care of me. She said she was proud of me that I have made all these changes and that for the first time in a long time she finally could say something good about me. But she said she could never love me as a husband.
I told her that if someone truly loved someone they would let them go and that I was ready to move on without her and I didn't need her in my life that I just want her to be happy.
How does someone stay married with someone for nine years, have 3 kids, tell me how much she loves me multiple times, makes so many future plans together, have sex 2-3 times a week and feel this way. It makes absolutely no sense. That is why I believe none of what she says and 50% of why she does. She will speak in absolute negatives because she is hurting and scared.
M:30 W:31 D:6&1 S:3 Married 9 years 8/8/2012 ILYBNILWY Bomb Dropped: July 2012 Legally Separated: 8/3/2012