Is my marriage still doomed?

[MrBond]

Have the two of you gone to C? The problem in your sitch is that I think there is alot of built up past resentments or unresolved needs. You need someone to help guide you out of that.

There are some times that you should just try to have fun with her and enjoy each other. You need to hold off on the emotional needs for yourself for a little while. She can't give it to you and you might be coming off as being needy and clingy.

You need to be strong for both of you.