Help! I need advice quick!!! H just got a bank statement in the mail today. It is from an "old" acct he opened when he left us.
I left it on counter. When he got home he stuck it in his pocket. So, I casually asked- what was your bank letter about? Oh its a statement he says. No, I said looks more like an overdraft. If it is he says, its from an automatic withdrawl. I do know he has that on there but he no longer uses acct. It is a automatic withdrawl for checking protection. I asked him to show me the letter. He said No. I should trust him. He got very defensive. Now remember- he left us for 8 months, lived with OW and lied for years to me about money issues. We have been piecing for 10 months and things have been going quite well I think. THis is the first "trust" thing to come up. His phone has no password. He leaves it out in the open. Calls me all the time. etc.
He thinks I should trust him by now he said. He did apologize later but still did not show me the paper. Stubborn or liar!?!
The tears just finally quit for me. The pain of the past came back like no ones business. I know I shouldn't cry- But what do I do????? Help please.
