Twisted by the time you get this likely you have already gone to the C.
I'll give you a little insight...IF the C is on your side? She is going to feel ganged up on. You're going to feel justified and smug, but she'll feel attacked.
The C isn't supposed to pick sides, just facilitate communication.
If she doesn't like the C? Why would she go back?
Maybe it's not going down like that. Maybe I read it wrong...I hope so.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
