If you've had that "we're going to date others" discussion then it's great. I assume the lady friend knows that you would like to reconcile with your W, if that's the case. Or have you decided to move on. I guess that's where I'm confused.

Not a 2x4, just a question.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss