i have been "away" grounding myself, but i am delighted to see that you have been also doing the same.
Would you like to bring your list over to the goals thread in an even more specific way? I think you are now ready to encourage others to do the same as you, and when they see where you are at , they will endeavor to do the same.
Here's what i would like to see when you put them there. write them out as 1,2,3 and for each one make it an action sentence - an easy way to do that is to begin with "I will..."
and i'd like to see you add very specifically how it will make you feel when you do it - it will make me feel attractive and more self-confident for example.
you have come a long way sweet lady - and you should be so proud of yourself - you have stepped over your own hurdle that was holding you back from who you are supposed to be - I'm so excited for you!
also, if you would like to talk here about how you are feeling and what your struggles may still be, I am here for you always. But in shifting your focus, you are going to find that everything feels much much easier, don't you think?
look forward to hearing from you
(((((( ))))))) zig
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"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"