ah, Jeannine .. You're not going to let me off easy, are you? But I don't WANNA DB...whined Sage.
OK...what do I know?
That my h loves and cares for me. He tells/shows me all the time.
That he is with me.
That our m. is better now than it ever has been.
That we are still working on honesty, intimacy, communication -- like everyone else!
That doing "what works", ahem, works...that means spending time together (hiking, eating out, snuggling, sitting in the same room, movies, sports, drinks, etc), REALLY listening, focusing on today (not yesterday or tomorrow), creating the positives...
That what "doesn't work" simply doesn't -- wallowing in the past, worrying about the future, making ASSumptions, spending time thinking of ow, blaming, anger, judgement, not having a beginner's mind, comparisons, attachment
That getting rid of my anger was the single best thing I have done for myself and my m.
That things go better when I am in a positive frame of mind.
That I can choose to DO NOTHING -- I don't need to solve **this** (whatever this is!) today.
pant, pant...is that enough????
Thanks for the reminder, friend.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
