Journalling I woke up in a generally positive mood and it stayed with me most of the day. I went out for a bite to eat with a work colleague (who has agreed to do the Spanish course with me) and laughed some.
But when I get in my car to drive home, it hits me that I am alone and that my marriage is over. It takes 30mins to get home and by the time I get to the empty house I feel quite sad. I don't know how I can change that part of my day, I mean I have to drive home sometime!
Question As H might (not betting on it) contact me sometime, probably by text initially, do I just mirror what he writes? E.G if he txts "morning" do I just text the same back after a while. And what do I reply if he asks "how are you doing?" "Hi H, I'm good, how are you doing?" (might that sound I'm better off?) "Hi H, I'm ok, how are you doing?"
I just want to make sure I am prepared and don't say the wrong thing. I noticed the other week that when I just said "Thanks for letting me know". He text again later. Maybe the rule is - simple messages only - not my long winded ones!
He didn't ansa my admin email. Why would he find that difficult? I only want an ok to get the work started
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"
