Quote: why was it MY h that got involved with her? why was HE the one that responded in that way? what's so broken about our m? our r? me? him? that got us down this path. I dunno...it just bummed me out...I felt like I was caught in this dream state...4 couples...why us?
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I can understand how those questions came to mind and how they would impact your emotions. I don't see how one can avoid bumping into this sort of thing from time to time.
Until we face (but not dwell on) those lingering questions that tend to impact our feelings, they will keep tapping us on the shoulder. It's a balancing act to be sure.
I suppose that there are a few things that can happen to help put these issues to rest for us.
a. Our S sits us down and spells it out for us? ........Yea, right. b. We figure it out on our own. ..... c. Amnesia. ............. d. Time...... Lot's and lot's of it.
