Thanks anotherstander it is so nice of you to comment...on my sitch. Yes I don't think she would come back because she is broke. But is it o.k if she comes back because of the kids and it would make them very happy? Maybe not...I love your analogy about the squirrel very fitting. One more quick question..I do like to keep in touch with my D's and call them about every night to tell them good night and see how their day was. They have their own phone so I don't have to bother her but is this too much?
