Time for an Introduction...and Thanks

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Hi Brian and LA,
Thanks for responding.
Brian - The final outcome I want, have always wanted, is my husband back home. A marriage that really works for both of us and an example to our children. A family where my children aren't worried their dad will leave again. I have accepted that the end game of this now 2 years may be a divorce and me being a single mom. I wouldn't say I'm OK with it as it's not what I want but I can also see this may have to be something my H feels he has to do to truly feel "free". I also know for all intents and purposes I have been a single mom for the most part since the day he left. Some people who know us might say even before then.

LA - I would say for the most part, yes, this is what he sees. He has in the past sent texts when I have the off weekend with no kids asking if I'm on a "date" or if I don't respond that he "knows" I'm with someone else. He hasn't done this in a while and I don't know if those comments were made prior to him moving in with OW. I don't know when he did that for sure. I think he pretty much feels I would not behave the way he has and doesn't really worry about what I'm doing.
I do have plans with friends next weekend. I'm really looking forward to it. I definitely need to make more of a concerted effort to get out there. D should be getting her car within the next week or so and I'm hoping can help a little bit more getting herself and her brother to and from their activities.