We also talked privately mostly about the kids and how they are doing...she is broke but her parents are giving her money and they can afford it as they were just offered 1.2 million for some land they own...that made my jaw drop and feel like my chances might not be so good...but I know we are better as a family and the kids will be so happy if we got back together...this is so hard on them as one week with me and one week with her.I don't care what people say it really effects children when families split up, no doubt about it..I do ask D-11 and D6 if they think their mom is happy and they say no. I really think me backing off has helped a lot and I think she is missing me some but she fills the void with lots of other people...I don't think I married the wrong women...I made some mistakes too....I just hope I get one more chance to make the M work....
