My story, my progress, my hope

[Tinman]

My W and I went out last night and talked. She told me that after friday night her son told her that he liked things just being the three of them and did not want to live with me and my D's again. That made her pull away and decide to push for divorce. She said after talking to him she knew she could never put him through that again.

I told her I understood and that I actually felt like a weight had been lifted. I have spent so much time trying to do the right thing and in the process feel like I lost who I was. This is very true and actually feel good about things. We talked about potentially dating and just having fun. We even kissed a few times and agreed to see eachother on Thursday night to celebrate the divorce and spend some adult time together.

I actually feel like our relationship will be stronger and maybe someday it will change into something more but for now it is time to let go of the past and just enjoy today.

I am sure I will have some sad times if she starts to date again but really I am surprised and how much relief I feel right now and I think that has helped her too.