best and worse thing to ever go through

[eyesopen]

I think the hardest part of detachment for me has to do with the kids. I know there is plenty of women out there that I could be extremely happy with. I just do not want my children to come from a broken home. I don't want some other guy influencing my children, and I don't want to give my w's influence to someone else. I guess if she can't find her way home, then she will leave me no choice in the matter. It is hard to leave them out of this since they are such a major part of our lives.