The past week has been very interesting. My H is becoming more curious as I GAL. He's asking more questions about my daily activities and weekend plans. H wants us to spend our spare time together. H said he wanted us to go out so we had dinner on Friday (after he had a few drinks at a local pub/could have met OW there but I will never know), dinner and dancing on Saturday and spent the day at his family function on Sunday. H said he appreciated me being with him all day Sunday. I actually felt smoothered. Like he was trying to occupy all my time. As I continue to detach, it seems as though he is pulling toward me. I don't think I did a very good job of detachment this weekend as all my time was pretty much spent with him. I'm trying to show him that I will be fine with or without him and I really feel that way. He continues to display more affection these days. His words are softer now and not as cold as they were a few weeks ago. H initiated conversation about the OW and said she has sent him several texts and made several attempts to contact him but he has not responded. Of course last week he said it was difficult for him to end the EA and just last month they had dinner so I'm not sure if he's telling the truth or not. I'm not looking at phone records and I may never know if he's being honest or not but I do know that he is giving me more attention now than he has in the last few months so there's some progress. He continues to say that he loves me and that our R is going to be fine. I stand firm that the A has to end in order for us to begin work on our M. In the meantime, I continue to DB (Detach & GAL)
