Hi: I just read through the thread, (still more to do, its quite long) but wondering how "going dark" would apply in my situation. I was the WAW sadly and am now in my H shoes from a year ago and wanting to save my marriage and he is now the WAH. So im not sure if going dark would work best for my situation - I was the one who didnt show him affection and attention and we still live together and have a child together. I am refraining from contacting him throughout the day now (the downward spiral started about a month ago)and keeping the convos at home to anything but "us" or the OW. Would that be "dark" enough for my situation?
