JAS hasn't posted since 10-2011, not sure how this old thread got bumped up but it's probably best to stick to your thread in Newcomers for input:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2282664#Post2282664

Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57