Sorry for your situation, but you'll find an awful lot of support here. Many have been thru similar situations so really listen to them.
You definitely should pick up Divorce Remedy and read it immediately. It's a fast read, and you really need the info in there as quickly as possible.
After that, I'd suggest you also read The Five Love Languages, as that may help you understand some of the dynamics going on with you initially (why you felt disconnected) and your H now (why he's tired of waiting).
With that said, think about what were your complaints in the M starting a couple of years ago? What have been your H's complaints about the M since?
Originally Posted By: ForMyHusband
I felt responsible for her feelings and her happiness.
I hate to suggest reading three books in my first response, but these screams codependence, so another suggestion for the reading list, Codependent No More.
Hang in there....it's going to be tough, but the faster you get up to speed on some things, and the sooner you start working on yourself, the easier it'll be.
