Separated and confused

[jendp]

Actually, I do not need the conversation and now I'm terrified of it for fear that I will screw things up more. He wants to talk business about my taking over the mortgage and bills, I think, and he said we can discuss this when I want to talk. I realize now I don't want to talk and actually the silence was more comforting than the fear of how to proceed. Would it be better to wait until he forces the issue? If the business matters are handled then he really has no future reason to speak to me again. I would like to talk in person instead of over the phone so he can see how I have changed.

You may be right about the affair, but I don't know this to be the case yet.

Thanks for the help.