Ramblings and the sort from a 1st timer.

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I agree with Cadet. While my situation is different, the question remains the same. Even if he is doing _________ what would you do differently. Focusing on you and what you do versus what your H is doing is hard. I struggle each day. But it does let you reclaim sanity and also helps you focusing on improving yourself first -- a win for you no matter what happens.