I have not read DR? I'm getting more nervous the more it gets closer to H coming home from work, this next Thursday, I want to confront him about my cheating suspicions so bad, but he just denies and gets pissed at me. It's gonna be hard to act like I'm happy and not bothered by all this. So I'm gonna finish some schooling and continue working out and taking care of kids and the house. Don't know what elce to do. If he is cheating. I'm done and moving on!!!
DR = "Divorce Remedy", Michele's book. It's a road map on how to deal with situations like this. Your sitch is a little bit different in that you're on the verge of walking (it sounds like). But DB techniques will still benefit you. If you do want to save your marriage, then ask yourself what happened that drove your H to become emotionally distant. Figure out what your contribution was to what went wrong and do 180's on those problems. Also read the 5 Love Languages and start filling your H's love tank, his tank is probably empty and yours is too, but you've got to do the work for now. Once you start filling his tank he'll want to start filling yours too.
Do not confront him about your suspicions unless you're ready to leave over it. If you want to work on the M, just push it to the back of your mind for now.
