RH I googled Retrouvaille just recently, nothing near me unfortunately that I could see. Not any decent marriage workshops at all. It would be helpful to do something like that i'm sure. My IC always wanted to see my H, but I never asked him. He had said to be at the first bomb drop not to even bother so I haven't. From what I read its not really helpful anyway. Probably no great loss. I dropped my IC because I felt I was getting better advice here and DB coach.
TVS, I agree, families should share, but MLC'ers are a different breed "its all about me" remember.
