DB is more about taking care of you so you can take care of your M. When you wake up with a knot in your stomach because you're already foreseeing the conflict H will throw at you, redirect your thoughts.
The second he starts unloading on you WALK AWAY! Set your boundaries immediately! Keep your cool if you need to address something and if it gets really bad, do it via text or email.
Take care of LASA!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017