I know now I was doing all the things that divorce busting says don't ,,like: calling a lot, asking if he still loves me, asking if he is attracted to me, saying negative things about myself infront of him, crying ect.. Detaching is helping he actually calls now and we are not arguing as much. Plus I am doing GAL, got goals to finish some school and fixing stuff around the house, trying to peice some kind of life for me together.
