I am just going to report the facts and if you guys could give me some feedback that would be great.
H brings the girls home and I was so excited. I heard them on the steps and had the door open and was kneeling so they could run into my open arms. They looked so big. I was giving them a million kisses.
H says "hi bklyn" - almost in a way like are you ignoring me.
I say hi h
H starts saying his good byes to the girls and d4 goes into hysterics. "daddy can you live here". "daddy don't go" etcetera. I try to change conversation and ask about the birthday they went to. She was having none of it and continued in hysterics for a half hr.
I a moment of calmish h leaves but d4 starts screaming and crying "I wanty daddy" as he walks out the door. I say to her "daddy loves you., daddy loves you"
She calms down 5 minutes after he leaves.
I text him a half hr later saying she has calmed down. He writes back.
"Thanks bklyn. I didn't give them a bath tonight, which I did last time. Her mood went down then. I'll give bath next time. Would u mind packing Jammie's with feet next time. Not saying it's your fault just something to try"
My reply "will do"
H "thks b (nickname) I really appreciate the she is okay text"
That was it.
Thoughts from the peanut gallery??
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13