One side of me wants to post continuously as things happen. The other side thinks I am spending to much time on here. I need to post continuously because if I let it go a day or two, I'll forget details. Since I really need and appreciate advice at this point, I'll use it as my journal.

So I came upstairs after working in the basement a little. Started baking banana nut bread for the kids in the morning. W came downstairs with her purse and said "well, I'll be back". I said "ok" and went on watching tv. She stood around for a minute and started talking about registering her number at a grocery store, kinda like idle chit chat. Her mood seemed kinda depressed, sad and confused.
D4 came downstairs to give me a kiss before bed. I talked with her for a minute, and joked and laughed with her a minute, inadvertently taking my attention away from wife. I hugged and kissed D4 and sent her up to bed. I went to check the oven and wife left.
I wished I could read minds. Is this my GAL, acting "as-if", and detachment working. I have to be patient and find out.