3 years aftet D-Day and i finally registet

[Am I Too Late]

Since my son and i went to the festival last Sunday and i told her i truly enjoyed how we liked shopping at the craft booths together, i mentioned i would see if they have any raspberry honey there since she liked it so much last year. She asked me to keep an eye out for either some lavender soap or lavender scented candle. I said, no problem, if i see them, they are yours.

Then i joked about a treat gift that i had done for her 3 years ago for Sweetest Day.. Due to a fantasy she had written about, i purchased bags of rose petals so she could take a bath on them, with the soft velveteen sensation could completely immersing her body, along with rose and scented candles, and lavender body lotions.

I also gave a nice card with a message for her to just turn off the lights, light the candles and enjoy a nice warm bath with the rose petals and then to take a relaxing nap using the lavender scented body lotions.

When she got home with her sister who was living with us, she got completely disgusted and ticked off and said i only did that to have s e x. Her sister started off with the hmmph and disgusting stare at my wife as if WTF was he thinking.

My joke was, "So, 3 years ago i should have just bought you a bar of soap instead of a tub full of rose petals, lol."

She replied,"Dork!!!". That can be her way of being affectionately funny in response or cute.

So, that brings us to this Saturday morning, when i take our son to his karate lessons. She showed up to be there to watch his class.

2 weeks ago when she 1st got back in touch with me after an extended time, she had wanted to get together and talk with me. I asked about what? She replied, everything.

She did not follow through to get together to have that talk on the night she said she would.

So, at the end of our sons karate class, i mentioned calmly without pressure, that since she had originally wanted to get together and talk that i will be open to that whenever she wants to, whether that is this week or 1 month or more down the road. I just told her that i wanted her yo know i wasnt avoiding having that discussion. She said, she knew that.

A couple of minutes later, when we were leaving, i asked if she would like to go to dinner sometime.

She said, things are going goof now, so lets just take things slow for now.

I dont know if that is a good sign, or just more avoidance and delay.

I do accept that though and will wait and see if she follows through with the talk she wanted to schedule. That ball to initiate that is in her court.

So, except for me texting her photos of our son having a great time at Lego-Land for a friends birthday party, i plan on waiting for her to contact me again to come watch our son at this Monday nights karate class as she promised.

One more thing, i have yo have an MRI done and have to get medicated to alleviate pain so i can lay still enough for the scans and she offered to drive me there and back since the place will not let me drive with the medication.