That is EXACTLY right. YOU determine your path. Not the 'team' here. You are the only one with all of the information you need. You are the only one who knows how interactions with your wife can go and the only one who knows what consequences you are willing to live with given your choices.
I have not read your full situation, and will try to do so, but you have lots of options.
^^^^^^^^^^To me, that seems to be the bottom line mate. Mind you I do agree with the fact that you shouldn't come out of darkness just to give her the talk. I'd wait her out.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
