Mr Bond, I completely own my part in my marriage breakdown . My biggest concern at this point in time is my childrens emotional wellbeing. They are confused and devastated by our breakup. My husband has been advised by the psychologist that is treating our son that it would be detrimental to our son if he were to learn that his father is in relationship withna teacher from his school. My husband has been ramming that relationship down my children's throats for the last three weeks, since the psychologist gave him her advice. Why should I consider my husbands emotional needs? I am daily assaulted by husband as he spews forth his venom, no matter how I approach him he replies with vitriol and hatred. I loved this man and I know we both contributed to the demise of our relationship but when it is breaking down you must think of the children first and this is never happening with my husband. I also find it difficult to db when I wake up every day and have a knot in my stomach about what my husband will beat me up about for the day, every day brings a new spew of hate, I am attempting no contact as I am worn out from the jibes.