I think I see the picnic!

[scaredsilly]

(((((vero)))))

i think i know how you feel, vero. i finally figured out what "loving myself" meant to me. we always hear that thrown about, as if it's so easy to do and we should know how to do it and what it means.

maybe others do but co-dependent people, like me, might not.

what i figured out, for me, was that loving myself meant protecting myself from those who don't love me.

i started setting boundaries for what i would accept and would not accept. it's made my life much easier. i know what to expect now and it's easier to stay on an even keel now; much less swing in my emotions.