So I've been thinking about my GAL activities. Yesterday I spent the whole day alone and that means I dwell on my sitch and get all upset. I need to do things with friends but I am going to set a boundary of not talking about sitch with them.
Also when I turned 40 instead of having a party, I wrote a list of 40 things I would like to do. When they are all achieved I am going to have a 40things party w those folk who helped me get there.
On the list is learn Spanish so this week I am going to see if I can find a language class to do one night after work.
When H met me I was very centred and knew what I wanted in my life, I felt very alive. I miss that. I hope doing GAL will help bring that part of me back.
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"