best and worse thing to ever go through

[Cadet]

The husband in me says, honor your vows and stand by your wife, this is your darkest hour.

The father in me says, this is the mother of your children, do what it takes to keep your family whole.

There is a right way and a wrong way to go about all this.
It is all not as logical as most would like.
It is counterintutive.

There is one word that can be your mantra.

DETACH.

Take you love and put it away in a box on the shelf.

Follow the advice above that you have given yourself.
Keep moving foward without slamming the door fully shut.

This is a very tough concept.

Tough Love is still Love.

Dont base your decisions by what you see right now.
She is not the same person right now but maybe she can be better down the road.