I didn't realize S25 had moved out. I see that is better for all of you, maybe him, too?
I think that part of the reason these sitches take so long to resolve is the time to accept those changes. I know my H says he thinks my changes are permanent. But when he talks to me, or tells me what he says to his new friends, it is always the way I acted in the past. Never how it is right now! Maybe because he doesn't see us as having a R right now? Idk.
I'm cautiously happy for you as your R is getting stronger. You are working really hard in a difficult circumstance for your M and your R.
Is the cruise next month? Has that topic been visited recently with you and H?
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway