I didn't realize S25 had moved out. I see that is better for all of you, maybe him, too?

I think that part of the reason these sitches take so long to resolve is the time to accept those changes. I know my H says he thinks my changes are permanent. But when he talks to me, or tells me what he says to his new friends, it is always the way I acted in the past. Never how it is right now! Maybe because he doesn't see us as having a R right now? Idk.

I'm cautiously happy for you as your R is getting stronger. You are working really hard in a difficult circumstance for your M and your R.

Is the cruise next month? Has that topic been visited recently with you and H?


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway