My H and I continue to have great times together (not always, but frequently enough). It's completely as though nothing at all has changed.
But then, he always comes back to "We are not married anymore", "We have to divide our assets and move on".
It makes me feel like I'm going mad.
As 25 says, they are on a 'mission' and nothing we do can change that.
Maybe it's the only thing in their lives they feel they have control over.. who knows?
It is baffling, it doesn't make sense; and there's pretty much nothing we can do but focus on ourselves.
When it gets you down, think about all of us out here (dotted all around the world) who know exactly how you feel. And we're all chugging on, one day at a time. We will get through this!