Interactions with my W have been pleasant for the most part. Last week, we had a text argument. It boiled down to that I didn't like the way she was communication (or more appropriately not communicating) with me.
Kimmerz wrote about that type of thing in her thread in MLC. Check it out, it's a more recent post.
Just to remind you that in our situations, the push/pull dynamic is still in play. Sometimes, maybe conscious... sometimes, maybe not so much...
It might feel good to point that stuff out to your W now and then. In the end though, it could very well be a pointless endeavour which will only be resolved if and when it is resolved, which will be entirely up to your W to choose to stop that cycle.
I've personally just given to the fact that it continues to be the "new norm" for my W. Maybe, one day, that will change.
