GM, my brain has a lot of negativity floating around from back then and this past year. If I let it, it'll keep finding "evidence" of why he's a jerk. But if I really look at it -
He paid quite a bit of money each month so our daughter can be home with me and a sitter. He didn't take me to court or push for more time He gave me the higher end of child support. He showed up pretty much every single time (mostly) on time for a year.
There was a few times he bought flowers and had our daughter give them to me. He recently thanked me for doing what I did this past year. He told me I'm an amazing woman.
Last night, he asked what I needed, he agreed if I want to be a SAHM again (and I don't actually, but do want more time with our D since I've been working so much this past year and she needs me).