Been reading here for a few hours (really Tumbling GAL!) and now have some musing/questions that I have got myself confused with.

? If H hasn't actually said he's done (just gone dark/into hiding/caving) why am I dim?

? If what has worked in the past to restart coms is me sending a friendly text, why am I doing LRT and waiting on him?

? Does he know I'd be interested if he wanted to pick up the ball?

I know I wanted to try something different to change the dynamic but I'm scared if I don't do some "over here" calling so to speak we will just drift on like this. I'm always been the first mover with us, I even asked him out.

I guess what I am driving at is does my email about the work on the house have to be so unfriendly?
(I don't know how to link to the draft email it's on page 5)

Meanwhile back to focusing on me, time for a G&T

ME41 H39
T12 M9
Ilybinilwy 10/2010
H moves out 11/2010
H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011
Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012
Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-)
"Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"