Now that I have cleaned up a lot of my baggage it is much easier to see what is left over and what belongs to him.
Bk, I did a double take when I read this because I said almost the same thing to my IC yesterday. For me it was very freeing, I did my best with the tools I had at the time. And, so did he.
I've increased the number of tools in my tool bag and cleaned out some malfunctioning ones, he doesn't seem to have done that.
When we know better, we do better.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss