Still together but trying to save this

[PeteWyo]

The more I detach the more I am finding out about our marriage. The further I get away the clearer I am able to see a lot of things that I was blind to. Good, bad and indifferent. I am no longer blaming myself as much. The more I find out about how our marriage was viewed from the outside the more I realize just how bad her misunderstanding and our bad or lack of communication really hurt us. Que sera sera I suppose.