I read through much of your sitch, and want to read it again more thoroughly. I see a lot of similarities with me and my H, and I see hope there.
My H moved out 3/12 and said he was done 6/12 and wants a D now. But we are great friends, he admits he still loves me, we've been intimate weekly, and he visits me and the boys twice a week for all day Sunday & one weeknight.
My question to you is, you said you had a personal coach. I read about the reframing. Was the coach a DB coach (if so, how many sessions did you get?) or an IC?
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
