GAL, I'm not sure where your boundary was. The boundary has to have a consequence which you enforce otherwise it is just a threat. It isn't clear to me that you had an enforceable consequence. I only bring this up because it seems it could be very helpful to you and your family. He sounds verbally abusive and no one should feel they need to take that.

It is an awful way to live. Boundaries are to protect you. You are worth it.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss