O aren't we in similar situations. I have tried to catch up on your sitch by backreading threads but its a bit hard cos not all threads have previous ones linked in.
I'm pretty strong minded and an only child so very independent (perhaps that should say never learned compromise). I think my H just gave up offering a view point because I vetoed everything.
I do now recognise tho that H is spinning plates and making frontline decisions daily so was happy to leave decisions to me but I got resentful in the end.
My H is conflict avoidant too - he recently told me in ansa to how are you doing? Head firmly buried in the sand and stumbling from one day to the next.
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"
